DarrenZ wrote: ↑Thu Feb 02, 2023 6:19 am
ucaneffher wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 7:16 am
We publicly split. All our friends thought we were broken up. She announced her relationship with him on social media, went to live with him, she went the whole way. I was simply her little secret. She'd sneak out with me here and there when she could but she didn't want to be seen with me publicly. Also, I accepted that at the end of the day I would have to take her back home before her boyfriend got home from work as she was expected to be home.
We would talk and text daily to keep our love and connection strong but he was her main man and she belonged to him. He was her primary and all her friends got to know him and did all activities with him included instead of me. So clubbing would involve him and my gf with her friends and so forth. Social media would be one of the many ways that i was kept involved in her life and how i would first hand see how she was interacting and giving herself to her boyfriend. It was normal to see her friends tag her in images where she was dressed very provocative and showing PDA with her bf. It took a little getting used to but I grew to really like seeing her images with him and looked forward to the weekends to see where she would end up with her boyfriend and her friends. My favorite posts were night club pictures of her in skimpy dresses with her boyfriend
It was very real and extremely erotic watching my gf completely belong to another man. Seeing her not hold back in front of anyone with him. Publicly he was her primary man. Privately he was absolutely her primary sexual partner, the one who devoured her at night and left her full of semen and sore but satisfied. She did tell me quite often on how she loved getting handled by him, his spontaneousness and sexuality was the reason she could not resist going sexually exclusive with him, becoming his girlfriend, and ultimately going to live with him. She wanted to give herself to him completely and i was supportive and willing to put us on hold publicly so that she wouldn't have to hold back. It was all an adventure that we both thoroughly enjoyed but it was temporary. She eventually moved back after 18 months and we resumed our life of reconnecting and being a normal couple without partaking in the lifestyle. Until she found her next lover and we discussed trying that experience again. We both loved her moving away and belonging to someone else.
Really hot story. Must have been excruciating but rewarding if you got sexual pleasure from the denial. I've read stories about that kind of fake separation that were really hot, but damn 18 months is a long damn time. Would be interesting in reading some of the really intense moments if you thought you had it in you. Helping her move; your interactions with her lover (did he know it was a ruse?); reactions from friends and family, especially when you got back together. I'm sure most just saw it as a breakup and then a reconnection, but wow, it must have been intense emotions as you felt their pity for you. Did they treat her differently when you got back together? Did anyopne question why you took her back? Sorry, it's the writer in me. One of the threads that often gets looked over in hotwife/cuckold erotic is friends and/or family finding out, even if what they believe is different than the truth. Exposure is both hot and risky.
The story was hot, living it was even hotter! 18 months was longer than we planned for, original it was supposed to be only a 12 month lease but she loved the situation so much that at the end of the lease, she opted to extend an additional 6 months. In case you are wondering, she extended first and then notified me that she was not moving back at the end of the month. It was tough in the beginning going to bed alone but by month 2, I knew in my mind that I wanted it that way.
It was definitely rewarding sexually for me to have surrendered her so thoroughly and all so suddenly in the public's eye. Everyone who knew my gf knew she was an extremely sexual person and self proclaimed nymphomaniac, so people know by her attitude with him and how she displayed affection for him publicly that they knew she was absolutely giving herself to the fullest, and yes word got to me from mutual friends who would first hand see the sexually charged body language she exhibited with him at all times.
As far as he knew, she was single but living with me, her ex boyfriend due to financial constraints but to his knowledge, she was single and available and that's why he took her away to live with him as his girlfriend. He did not know I was even in the picture. Yes I know that it was unfair for him to think he was the only one but we were all in our very late teens-early 20s.
After they split, she kept the apartment all for herself and used it as her "bachelorette pad" where she would have male friends over several days/nights per week. She would often host get togethers and her girlfriends would always being their guy friends and always a spare guy for my girlfriend so she was never alone and it's how she would meet more men to keep on rotation. I wasn't allowed to show up unannounced because she almost always had a man over.
When we resumed our relationship, people said they knew we'd get back together and we're happy to see us together. I don't recall anyone directly asking me anything pertaining to her 18 months of being someone else's woman as well as going through a wild stage in her life. The neighbors certainly witnessed the frequency of overnight visits that my girlfriend received from many many different men after her boyfriend moved out. I always found that so hot. I always received looks from neighbors in the same hallway because to them, i was just one of the dozens of men that show up in the evening, have her moaning all night, and then leave the next day. They probably thought she was a sex worker for all we know!
Over a decade later and I have to say that it was such a memorable experience in my life, that despite me getting such a limited amount of pussy during those 18 months while she was getting torn up nightly - I would do it all over again in the blink of an eye.
Seriously, if the situation presented itself again under an equal or similar scenario, I would sign up for another 18 months of it or even something much longer term. Regarding long term, ideally this would be possible if we owned a multi-unit flat/building in which she could live in one of the units and she could have her single girl freedom or move a boyfriend in.
Under fantasy thoughts, I've wondered what it would be like to actually have an established relationship where my wife sort of permanently lives with her boyfriend instead of myself; her lawfully married husband. I think that this last scenario is absolutely insane but definitely pushes all my cuckold buttons and boundaries in all the right places and oh so good. Unrealistic and probably not a good idea, though.